Note to self. The order and timeline which I revealed [rapist’s name] stuff especially recently has been the right way to do it for my own personal healing. Don’t question the decisions you have made. Your healing comes first and you have done that right. Reporting him feels right. I am afraid he has or will hurt others, and I know now for a fact that what has happened to us is his fault. He committed a crime against us. The law deserves to know. Keep going and trust yourself and ask for help when and if you need it. You’re doing great. We’re proud of us.